Harimau Malaya mengaum...!~

Assalammualaikum.

It was a very exciting game last night! I shouted like hell man! Ha ha..

Almost forgot how excited I was watching Malaysian Football Team played. But the game between Malaysia and Indonesia last night, was the best in 2010. 

Playing in Indonesia wasn't the best option ever, as we know how immature the supporters had been even to their own facility! Its pretty weird to me when I read that they even vandalized their own stadium as a result of short of ticket for the game. Barbarians are still around huh? Shame on you all! 

I watched the game at the benefit of my own home. Its exciting and adrenalin-pumping moments watching how Harimau Malaya played their heart out defending our goalie. The goalkeeper (Khairul Fahmi) has been very good in carrying out his responsibility saving up few 'so-close-goals'. Safee Sali's only goal last night was a goal to remember! It was so precise! 

After 14 years of waiting, finally we had the chance to held our head up high and be proud of our team. We won the AFF Suzuki Cup 2010. It is such an honor to win that isn't it? After all the critics from every angle on how bad the football performance of our team had been, this has to be the eye-opener to all! 

Anyway, just a quick reminder, stay strong and teamed up to be the best as Malaysia is at par with other Asian countries out there. Sometimes being critical and sarcastic is very helpful as long as we take all the criticisms to the positive side. 

Congrats to our football team for the success! Thanks for all the effort! Thanks to K.Rajagopal for coaching them! 

Thanks to our PM for the public holiday! :) 

Shinosuke : Rindu nak bebel kat awak la..! :p 

Update : Liya's Wedding + Yana Rina's Guilty Pleasures

Assalammualaikum.

It looks like its pretty late to update on Liya's Reception. Anyway, I just had to update on this! 

It was a simple yet beautiful reception, so simple that the bride and groom looks like they're really enjoying their time! Stress-free moments! Unlike some people who're just unable to smile as sincere as they should due to many unresolved and unpredictable circumstances, which is not what they would want to happen ever in their big day. 

It was an emotional moments for me, knowing how matured she had been! She's finally settling down with the 'one'! I was so happy! The happiest moment has always been the photography session. I Snapped lots of photos together with the couple. Smiling all the way, anyway, just a remark here, its the most sincere smile I had, post 5/12/2010 events!

K.Tini, Hajar, Umi, Mariam & I were having our best time on that day! Next year it gonna be K.Tini's turn! I am looking forward to that reception! I am trying my best to slim down as much as I can so that I can wear something decent and pretty on that day, ha ha! Dream on, Yana! Anyway, dreaming is the best way to be successful, provided that we're trying our best to realize that dream!

Sneak Peak of the pictures of Liya's reception : 

Right after the reception, I drove all the way from Ampang to Sri Gombak for the next unplanned gathering with my dearest Rina. My BFF forever! The only few left, whom I trust the rest of my life, who'll be there for me no matter what happen. Love you so much, Rina.  I admit that I have a very short list of BFF, as it is not easy for me to trust people. I found it very hard to even trust my own family. Funny isn't it? But that is how exactly I felt. 

We had our girl talk, as usual! Chatty Yana + Chatty Rina! Hahaha...! Its a great meeting anyway! Discussing what's up with our life since the past few weeks, after the meeting where I told her bout what had happened to me and him. We also had our guilty pleasure treat at Secret Recipe Sri Gombak. Having our girl talk there for hours. Its fun! I really wish that we could stay that way forever. Chilling out talking for hours without anyone bothering us, no phone calls + no smses. It is simply fulfilling! 

I'm pretty sure that 1 day all that has to stop, when the time come that she is to be taken over by a husband. But, the friendship remains and never can end. That's the only faith that I keep in my heart when it comes times where I really missed him and his company. He'll always be my best friend forever! Stays no 1 in my heart. :) 

Me and my pic madness : 

** I really want that Black Heel..! Will make sure I'll get my hand on that.. :D 

Shinosuke : Saya pun boleh bahagia mcm awak ye..Thanks sbb jadi penyimpan rahsia terhebat abad ini..! :)

La Viva Liya is getting married...!! :)

Assalammualaikum.

It is such a shocking news when Liya cracked out that she's getting married this Christmas. All of a sudden dear!

Hmm..she's like a best friend to me. Its Liya & Zura, the first trainee that I had to trained back then when I was just a senior accounts. Not so senior, but felt like one though haha..! She used to be a great listener to all my HOT n NOT SO HOT stories. And i mean a really good listener when she always forgets what I had told her! Haha..

Its a relieved that finally she's good in Yusriq's hands (can't remember whether I had his name correct here). I am super happy for her, knowing what she had gone through in first half of 2010. But she's such a superhero that she's bold enough to come up with such decisions. Kudos to you, dear! :) I am super proud of you! I wish this moment I am as bold as you guys are! :)

Thanks for all the sweet moments that we shared together. 

Thanks for the Layang² Day & Trip to Putrajaya, together with Nan, HH and Hajar. Had lots of fun on that day!

Thanks for accompanying me to Go Youth back then in 2009.

Thanks for being there for me when I'm in my ups and downs.

Will remember those moments for the rest of our lives. 

Just a quick reminder : Don't you ever forget me and all of us here in P.S. Yap & Associates. Cherish every moments of your upcoming phase in life. I will always be there to pray for your happiness. Just have faith in whatever you're doing, dear! Anyway wishing you a blissful marriage, may Allah blessed every second of your new steps. :)

Health Notes

A simple knowledge worth sharing...! :) 

We can never 'buy' health once you lost it, no matter how much price you're willing to pay for it. Please do take good care of it ya..! I've been telling that to myself as well. Reading the email, its such a shocking moment realizing how bad we've been to our only body. :) Sharing is Caring. 

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BRAIN DAMAGING HABITS

No breakfast : People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.

Overeating : It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.

Smoking : It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease. 

High sugar consumption : Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.

Air pollution : The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency. 

Sleep deprivation : Sleep allows our brain to rest... Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells...

Head covered while sleeping : Sleeping with the head covered increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.

Working your brain during illness : Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.

Lacking in stimulating thoughts : Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.

Talking rarely : Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain. 

THE MAIN CAUSES OF LIVER DAMAGE

` Sleeping too late and waking up too late are main cause.

` Not urinating in the morning.
` Too much eating.

` Skipping breakfast.

` Consuming too much medication.

` Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring, and artificial sweetener.

` Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. 

` Consuming overly done foods also add to the burden of the liver. 

We should prevent this without necessarily spending more. We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our bodies to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to 'schedule.' 

THE TOP FIVE CANCER-CAUSING FOODS 

Hot dogs : 

- Because they are high in nitrates, the Cancer Prevention Coalition advises that children eat no more than 12 hot dogs a month. If you can't live without hot dogs, buy those made without sodium nitrate.

Processed meats and bacon : 

- Also high in the same sodium nitrates found in hot dogs, bacon, and other processed meats raise the risk of heart disease. The saturated fat in bacon also contributes to cancer.

Donuts : (I love this..!! Used to...can't consume this anymore due to Atkins Diet)

- Doughnuts are cancer-causing double trouble. First, they are made with white flour, sugar, and hydrogenated oils, then fried at high temperatures. Doughnuts may be the worst food you can possibly eat to raise your risk of cancer. 

French fries : 

- Like doughnuts, French fries are made with hydrogenated oils and then fried at high temperatures. They also contain cancer- causing acryl amides which occur during the frying process. They should be called cancer fries, not French fries.

Chips, crackers and cookies : 

- All are usually made with white flour and sugar. Even the ones whose labels claim to be free of trans-fats generally contain small amounts of trans-fats.

A story of appreciation : I learn very well from this.

Assalammualaikum. 

Few weeks ago a best friend of mine, forwarded me with a very touching email. Probably she wanted me to be a better manager as she knows me very well. 

I used to grumble about the pain that I had to go through sitting on this not so HOT seat. Guess what? 'He' had to hear me talking about that all day long, but, luckily he had experience being a manager of a Pizza Hut branch himself somewhere in KL back then before he had to leave for his government job. That is why I always turn to him for advices. 'Human touch', being strict and patience are his key points. OK, I always took his words seriously! Thats why I managed to go through the peak period kinda well I guess. Thanks to Shinosuke! Appreciate your help dear.. :)

I hope that this story would be an eye opener to all the managers out there. It is also a reminder to mu own self as well...

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A Story of Appreciation

This is a powerful message in our modern society. We seemed to have lost our bearing & our sense of direction.

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Was it your father who paid for your school fees?" The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, " Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water.

This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.

The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The Director asked, " please tell me your feelings."

The youth said,

Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today.

Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am looking for in my managers.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

You can let your kid live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learns how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learns the ability to work with others to get things done.

Hope this article has inspired you in some way….

Repost : 6th Dec 2010 Update > Penutup 1431H & Pembuka 1432H

Assalammualaikum..

hmm...penutup 1431H kali ni amat la menyedihkan...hari yg mbuatkan ku menangis sampai mata bengkak2...hari yg paling sedih lam hidup ku...Allah jek tau pe ku rasa lam situasi itu...

rasa2nya ms break up dulu pn x nanges centu...haha sadis tul la..! anyway sumenya mberikn ku peluang utk berubah...utk m'akhirkan semua yg sepatutnya blaku dulu lg...

hari ni aku hilang sorang teman yg sgt2 rapat...teman yg sgt2 aku sayangi...tp aku harap pe yg aku wat ni adalah yg terbaik utk aku dan dia...sbb ni sume utk kebaikan dia...aku percaya dgn ketiadaan aku, segala mslhnya akan berakhir...aku sanggup lakukan apa jek utk tgk dia bahagia, walaupn aku rs sgt2 sedih...semuanya x kn sama mcm dulu...semuanya akan berakhir...apa yg tinggal hanyalah kenangan kami sbg sahabat...

aku x penah salahkan dia atas sume ni...Allah yang m'aturkan segalanya...Allah lebih tau apa yg mampu aku dan dia hadapi...Allah itu sgt2 adil bila menemukan aku dgn dia...walaupn hanya utk tempoh yg tak lama...Allah berikan aku sorang sahabat yg x penah jemu b'sabar dgn kerenahku, yg sentiasa mberikan aku semangat utk terus tabah hadapi apa pn yg akan aku tempuh...sentiasa menjadi pakar rujuk ku lam sume aspek kehidupan...teman utk mdengar aku mbebel...teman bkongsi masalah...teman bcerita...teman menangis...punching bag yg paling aku sayang..! dia la yg selalu mbuatkan aku terfikir tentang buruk baik setiap perbuatan ku...sbb de masanya aku terlalu mgikut emosi...typical kn..? perempuan...makhluk tuhan paling seksi..eh salah...seksa..hahaha :D

hari ni aku wat keputusan utk memutuskn persahabatan yg sgt2 aku sayangi ni...atas dasar utk melihat dia bahagia ngan insan yg tersayang...dia sahabatku yg paling aku hormati dan sayangi...x sanggup rasanya nk tgk dia n insan2 tersayang terluka dgn kehadiran aku...kenapa agaknya aku wat keputusan ni ye? sbb aku nk dia tau yg dia x perlukan aku seandainya dia nk semuanya baik...aku kne keluar dr semua ni...guess what? aku mtk dia sekat semua jenis mode of communication ngan aku...mmg kami jauh tp ngan teknologi yg ada semuanya terasa sgt2 dekat...YM, SMS, Call, FB dan yg lain2...even lam hp aku, no dia dh aku delete...aku tau yg aku x hafal no dia...jadi aku x mungkin akan leh contact ngan dia...

sakit...? sakit sgt2...! sbb aku mmg sayang dia sgt2...kekadang rs mcm alangkah baiknya seandainya semua insan bgelar lelaki ada ciri2 positive yg dia ada...kalo leh photostat kn best..! sbb tu la aku sgt2 sedih kehilangan sahabatku dunia akhirat neh...

persahabatan kami ni agak complicated...x mcm yg org lain sangkakan...sbb hanya kami yg tau psl persahabatan ni...hanya kami yg tau pe yg kami sdg buat...aku paham dia, dan dia paham aku...dia x pernah watkan aku sedih...kalaupn dia watkn aku terasa hati, cepat2 dia say sorry...dia mmg ego...tp egonya xde la sebesar gunung, masih leh aku tolerate lg la kiranya...kalo x leh tolerate mana mungkin leh jd kwn serapat ni kn? :) dia x penah sekali pun menegur aku tentang bentuk fizikalku...malah dia selalu mberikan aku semangat utk terus berusaha utk mcapai apa yg aku nk buat sgt2 iaitu nk kuruskan bdn...!! dia selalu marah aku bila aku ckp psl diriku yg GEMUK ni...dia ckp manusia ni de kelebihan n kekurangan masing2...pe yg aku pikir psl diriku sgt2 penting berbanding pe yg org pikir psl aku...jadi dia suh aku selalu pikir positive...

sedih nya...pasni dh xde sape lg yg akan dgr aku bebel n cite mslh aku...mungkin dh tiba masanya utk sang blog menjadi sahabat karib aku..! nampak gayanya pasni penuh la coretan aku lam blog ni...haha...semuanya akan berubah,,,xde lagi ucapan "selamat pagi" utk ku...tiada lagi YM pd bila2 ms terluang yg dia ada...tiada lagi soalan2 cepumas btanyakn tentang progress dietku...

tapi percayalah aku x mungkin akan dapat lupakan si dia, sahabatku dunia akhirat...percayalah aku x akan pernah bhenti berdoa utk kebahagiaan dia...percayalah semua kenangan semasa persahabatan kami akan ku simpan sampai akhir hayat...percayalah aku x akan pernah berhenti mperbaiki diri dan bpikiran positive selagi hayat ada...ku perlu percaya dgn diriku, sepertimana dia percayakn aku...percayalah yg aku akan buktikan yg aku leh kurus...aku akan berusaha utk itu..! meskipun dia x dpt lihat perubahan aku nnt, aku tau dia akan hepi ngan perubahan ku nnt...!

Ya Allah, kau bahagiakanlah dia n keluarganya...berikanlah kesihatan,kesejahteraan, kejayaan, kesenangan, keimanan utk dia n semua insan2 yang aku syg...keluarga, sahabat2 ku, staff2 ku, kwn2 ku, dan semua insan yg aku kenali...Seandainya aku perlu mhadapi segala dugaan utk semua insan tersayang bahagia, aku redha Ya Allah...

Ya Allah, terima kasih kerna mhadiahkn seorg sahabat yg terbaik yg aku pernah ada walaupn hanya seketika...terima kasih kerna mhadiahkan aku dugaan ini...terima kasih kerna myedarkan kami yg masa nya telah sampai...terima kasih utk semuanya...ampunkanlah segala dosa ku sepanjang hidupku ini...ampunkanlah dosa semua insan2 yg amat kusayangi...Ya Allah, terima kasih utk thn 1431 yg sgt2 indah dan penuh dgn perkara2 yg mbuatkan aku berubah dan mbuka minda ku ni...

Ya Allah, permudahkanlah segala urusan ku dan insan2 tersayang...semoga thn 1432H ni mbawa kebahagiaan dan keindahan kepada semua umatMu...Semoga thn ni akan lebih baik dr thn sebelumya dr semua segi...Berikan lah aku kekuatan utk mhadapi semuanya...Terima kasih Ya Allah utk sekian kalinya mberikan aku kehidupan dan kesempatan utk bernafas di atas muka bumiMu ini... :)

Lagu yg paling sesuai utk situasi aku skrg :

"I Will Always Love You"

If I
Should stay
I would only be in your way
So I'll go
But I know
I'll think of you every step of the way

And I...
Will always
Love you, oohh
Will always
Love you
You
My darling you
Mmm-mm

Bittersweet
Memories
That is all
I'm taking with me
So good-bye
Please don't cry
We both know I'm not what you
You need

And I...
Will always love you
I...
Will always love you
You, ooh

I hope life treats you kind
And I hope you have all you've dreamed of
And I wish you joy and happiness
But above all this
I wish you love

And I...
Will always love you
I...
Will always love you [Repeat]

I,
I will always love
You....
You Darling I love you
I'll always
I'll always
Love You..
Oooh Ooohhh

Semoga apa yg aku buat kali ni adalah yg terbaik...Jangan pernah lupa "Saya SAYANG Awak"... :)

Update : Mampukah aku..?

Assalammualaikum.

Dh 2 weeks dh berlalunya episod sedih lam hidup aku tu..

Masih terasa lg situasi ketika itu...masih terngiang2 lg setiap kata2 dia...masih terbayang lg wajah muram dia...

Hmm..aku x sepatutnya mengingati semuanya kn? Kerna semuanya hanya menambahkan sedih di hati ku...mungkin betul ckp En Z...Aku patut lupakan dia...Tapi mampukah aku...?

Mungkin itu yg terbaik utk mengubat parut lam ht ni...Mengapa aku perlu bersedih sedangkan aku tahu dia sedang berbahagia di mana jua dia berada...Aku seharusnya mencuba membahagiakan diri ku sendiri...Tapi mampukah aku...?

Tapi aku rindu dia sgt..! Walaupn aku rasa yg dia x akan pernah merindui aku...Sedihnya...!

Tapi mampukah aku...? Tapi mampukah aku...? Tapi mampukah aku...? Arghhhhhh...! Rasa nk jerit jek kuat2...Ms breakup ngan ex bf dulu pn x mcm ni...!! I hate myself...!

Last Friday opis aku cuti sbb de event company...aku x terlibat lam event tu...so stay kt umah jek la jawabnya...

Kalo dulu ms still single n fooling around, walaupn duk kt umah aku x penah rs bosan...sbb dia mesti akan on9 utk borak ngan aku...so at least walaupn kami jauh, tp ttp rs dekat sbb x pnh berenggang...hari2 on9...tp kkdg disebabkn aku selalu busy, aku jarang on9 mlm2...pdhal dia x pnh lupa nk on9 mana la tau in case aku on9 pas balik dr opis...tp jarang sgt la melainkn weekend la...

Walaupn kkdg soklan yg dia tanya aku tu sama jek hari2, tp aku rs hepi sbb de kwn yg concern n caring mcm dia... :)

soalan2 wajib dia..." salam...kt ne..? pa kabar ktk...? dh makan? makan pe? "

favorite phrase dia..." i miss u..." " nice..i like... "

" i miss u gak.. :'( " ===> dulu, kini & selamanya sahabatku...!

Sbb tu tajuk post ni "Mampukah aku...?".

Kerna aku x pasti samada aku mampu melupakan dia... :( too bad for me rite..?

Cemana nk lupakan dia kalo setiap kali post update lam blog ni, mesti de cite psl dia gak...alahai...! mmg x mampu la nampak gayanya kn..? huhuhhuhu

Haa...tetiba kmk rindu maok klaka swk tek...!! uwaaaaa maok nanges kmk sa nek tok..! nang menar la nak nya gelar mek congek..!

" Iboh congek la owh...! Iboh pikey-ve jak.. "

" Aok la pok..! hehe.. "

Hmm...smlm kuar ngan Shil...x larat dh nk dgr Shil bebel sbb aku abaikan dia pas apa yg jd baru2 ni antara aku dan 'dia'...sian Shil dpt tempiasnya...pdhal dia x de kne mgena pn...

Mcm bese la...Shil ajak tgk wyg kt Alamanda...aku dh bosan dh tp layankn jek la kn bdk kecik neh...! kang majuk walaupn aku x kesah n x nk amek kesah pn, tp nnt aku gak yg bosan kn..? hakhak senget..!~

Kami tgk Tron : Legacy...best gak cite tu...layankn jek zasss walaupn ala2 nantoks...! hehe pastu p dinner kt Azhar Maju...hohoho tempat plg takut nk p sbb takut tserempak ngan Prosbocians...waahahahaa... :D

Thanks Shil sbb sedaya upaya nk watkan aku gelak...walaupn dia tau pe yg ada lam hati aku...

Thanks gak sbb bersabar ngan kerenah aku yg bak kata shil :

>> "u ni weirdo la syg...! tp i ttp syg u..."

" Weirdo..? Hmm..according to him..I am special..! " (getus aku lam hati..)

Sbnrnya smlm de jek jemputan dr kkwn kt Daus FC utk p lepak kt Canai Corner yg dkt ngan Subang Parade...tp terpaksa x m'joinkn diri sbb nk kne jumpa si Shil neh...adehhh kalo x sure dh dpt jumpa ngan Daus AF8 yg kmk minat gilak tok..!!! ecehhhhh

Motif aku minat Daus...? sbb Daus mcm dia...! comey sama jek depa neh...! hahahha senget la aku neh kn?! :D

Hmm..mlm ni de game Chelsea v. Man United...! owh mmg game yg aku tggu2 neh...! x sabar nk tgu mlm kang...terpikir2 nk tgk kt umah ke nk tgk kt luar...tp esok kn keje...nk ajak Shil kang esok dia class pg lak...hukhuk ckp psl MU, tingat lg ngan dia...sbb dia ngan aku neh =...kami ni MUFC..! oh yeah...sy syg abg Rooney..!

Mesti dia akan berjaga mlm ni utk tgk bola...! Mek urang, mun nangga game MU mala jak on9 n YM...! Haha mun nya sik on9, kmk bgurin jak sorg la owh...silap2 sik nangga game ya sbb ttido...!! pasya isok lusak mala jak kenak selak ngan nya...adoiyaiiii :p

Haaaa....! Abg Z pn sure akan berjaga tgk bola...haaa sambil2 tgk bola leh la tgu kek besday ek..? Sbb 20.12.2010 besday pakcik ni...! Nnt Yana belikan present ek..? Kalo Chelsea menang game mlm ni, anggap jek la itu adiah dr Wayne Rooney utk Abg Z ek..? hahahaa...adehhh x sesuai ok bila bkawan ngan org yg minat Chelsea neh...kalo tumpang kete de jek merchandise Chelsea lam kete dia...waahahahaha...x kose i...tercemar ok...! haha :p

Banyak nye aku gelak n senyum lam post kali ni...! :(

Walaupn semanis atau setawar mana pn senyuman aku...aku tetap rindu dia... :(

Semoga dia hepi..!! :)

Shinosuke : Bahagiakanlah semua insan di sekeliling awk...walaupun terkadang awk merasa x bahagia...percayalah suatu hari nnt semuanya akan membuahkan hasil...byk2kn bersabar ye...jgn pernah lupakn memori persahabatan kita OK! :)

Mengahwini Wanita Hamil..

Assalammualaikum.

Sekadar berkongsi ilmu tentang sesuatu yg mungkin terkadang kita terlepas pandang...Semoga bermanfaat... :)

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Mengahwini Wanita Hamil:

Sesungguhnya, permasalahan ini berat. Perhatikan soalan 1 - 5.

Perkahwinan seumpama ini hari ini memang tersangat biasa kerana keluarga biasanya memilih jalan ini untuk menutup malu. Bila dapat tahu anak pregnant luar nikah, cepat cepat kahwinkan.

Berdasarkan kenyataan ini, nikah itu TIDAK SAH, maka pasangan itu kelak hidup dalam zina sampai bila-bila...

Persoalan ini telah diajukan kepada seorang Imam, di mana banyak persoalan lain timbul dari persoalan pokok tersebut. Saya kongsikan bersama anda di sini kerana ianya amat penting:

Soalan 1 : Apakah langkah yang sewajarnya sekiranya seorang gadis belum berkahwin didapati hamil anak luar nikah?

Jawapan 1 : Gadis itu tidak boleh berkahwin sehingga bayi itu dilahirkan.

Soalan 2 : Sekiranya lelaki yang bertanggungjawab itu bersedia mengahwini gadis itu, bolehkah mereka bernikah?
Jawapan 2 : Tidak. Mereka tidak boleh bernikah sehingga bayi itu dilahirkan.

Soalan 3 : Adakah pernikahan itu sah sekiranya mereka berkawin?
Jawapan 3 : Tidak. Pernikahan itu TIDAK SAH. Seorang lelaki tidak boleh mengahwini

seorang wanita hamil, walaupun lelaki itu merupakan ayah kepada bayi yang dikandung itu.

Soalan 4 : Sekiranya mereka bernikah, apakah tindakan mereka untuk memperbetulkan keadaan?
Jawapan 4 : Mereka mesti berpisah. Perempuan itu mestilah menunggu sehingga melahirkan,

atau sehingga sah dia tidak mengandung, barulah mereka boleh bernikah sekali lagi, secara sah.

Soalan 5 : Bagaimana sekiranya keadaan itu tidak diperbetulkan?
Jawapan 5 : Maka mereka akan hidup di dalam zina kerana pernikahan itu tidak sah.

Soalan 6 : Apakah hak seorang anak luar nikah?
Jawapan 6 : Kebanyakan pendapat mengatakan bahawa anak itu TIADA HAK untuk menuntut apa-apa daripada ayahnya.

Soalan 7 : Sekiranya hukum mengatakan lelaki itu bukan ayah kepada anak tersebut,

adakah itu bermakna dia bukan mahram kepada anak perempuannya sendiri?

Jawapan 7 : Ya. Dia tidak boleh menjadi mahram.

Soalan 8 : Sekiranya seorang lelaki Muslim dan seorang wanita Muslim (atau bukan Muslim) ingin bernikah setelah bersekedudukan, apakah tindakan yang sewajarnya?
Jawapan 8 : Mereka mesti tinggal berasingan segera dan menunggu sehingga perempuan itu haid satu kali sebelum mereka boleh bernikah.

Soalan 9 : Sekiranya saya kenal/tahu seseorang di dalam keadaan ini, apakah saya perlu memberitahu kepadanya, atau lebih baik menjaga tepi kain sendiri?
Jawapan 9 : Anda wajib memberitahu, kerana itu sebahagian tanggungjawab anda sebagai saudaranya. Mereka harus diberi peluang untuk memperbetulkan keadaan mereka, kalau tidak semua keturunan yang lahir dari pernikahan tidak sah itu adalah anak-anak yang tidak sah taraf.

Tolong jangan abaikan email ini. Ini merupakan satu perkara yang serious, jadi, fahami dan dalami betul-betul dan bincanglah dengan Imam/ustaz sekiranya perlu.

mafhumnya:

Katakanlah: "Sesungguhnya sembahyangku dan ibadatku, hidupku dan matiku, hanyalah untuk Allah Tuhan yang memelihara dan mentadbirkan sekalian alam".